Month of Me Recap

I am very grateful to everyone who took the time to  participate in my month of me (#MonthOfMe) last month. Although I did not complete everything on the list, it was great to focus on myself a little bit while enjoying some fun yet unconventional activities with my friends.


What I earned during my month of me:

I have a lot of friends that love me. Some of whom were not able to share in the actual month of me celebrations but many who were. I thank each of you for taking the time to call, text or come celebrate with ne at one of my many celebrations throughout the month.

Its ok to be alone. I spend a lot of time alone but being by myself on my birthday for yet another year was a bit emotional. In retrospect being alone afforded me the opportunity to meet an awesome stranger who gifted me the necklace she was wearing along with a warm hug and well wishes for my upcoming year. I will always be grateful to her for her generosity and words of encouragement to move forward faithfully and fearlessly.

I should make more time to do the things I love. Why is it that I wait for some special occasion or the beginning of a new year to check things off my bucket list? Sometimes I think I over think and complicate things. I need to make myself a priority and that’s what this month is about.

My calendar and to do list are my best friends. I managed to redeem a  freebie every day during the month of May, some days even more than one. I enjoyed more than 31 free meals and several others discounted during my month of me. This was only possible because of my intense planning and management of my month of me calendar.  (You can see the photos of my adventures on Instagram).

It doesn’t have to be perfect to be awesome. Yes I put together this awesome list of 31 things to do in celebration of my 33rd birthday during my month of me. Even though I only completed 8, the month was quite a success because it’s not about checking of items for my birthday bucket list. It was about getting back to me and doing some of the things I love and hopefully having friends to join me. And man did I do that. Not to mention I did a lot of great things that weren’t on the list throughout the month too like attending the Burger Bash with my Yelp Elite family, attend my sister’s graduation, and enjoy a wine night out with a great group ladies where I discovered a few new wines I love.


So it is my intent to continue checking of my birthday bucket list items until they are all complete (which is hopefully well before next year when I’ll be creating a new birthday bucket list). And after this experience maybe it’s worth making every month a #monthofme.

It’s My Birthday: Month of Me Bucket List

This year I have decided to celebrate my birthday by borrowing an idea from my one of my virtual friends Jason Francis. He celebrated his birthday with a campaign he called the #monthofme. Subsequently my friend Natalie claimed her month and I figured why don’t I do the same.


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Libra List – September Bucket List

So as you may know last month I had this bright idea to create a monthly bucket list, which I called my Leo List. It was a personal challenge to get out and about and accomplish both some of my personal and professional goals. I included things that would help me to stretch a little . . . → Read More: Libra List – September Bucket List

August Bucket List – (In)Completed

So I set out to get out and about this month with a list of to dos which I called my Leo List (my August Bucket List). After working three years at a job which left me with very little spare time, I just want to take some time to enjoy myself. This list was . . . → Read More: August Bucket List – (In)Completed

My Open Letter to Ms. Bevy

A few weeks ago I applied to attend one of Ms. Bevy’s Life With Vision dinners, happening Labor Day weekend. The application consisted of answering a few questions which would display why you should be chosen for this event. The exercise although it did not yield me a spot at the table (which was yet . . . → Read More: My Open Letter to Ms. Bevy

Opinions (Even Mine) Don’t Matter

So it occurred to me after having a conversation with a new friend that much of my (and others) paralysis comes from the desire to seek approval from others. It’s funny, I never thought of it that way, probably cause I want to be the strong, independent woman who has my shit together. And while . . . → Read More: Opinions (Even Mine) Don’t Matter

Leo List – My August Bucket List

As I indicated in the previous post, I want to be a woman of action this month. I am determined to work daily on my professional development but my personal development is just as important. I am not currently working a traditional job and I want to take this hiatus to enjoy life a little. . . . → Read More: Leo List – My August Bucket List

Can’t I Stay In Bed Instead?!

I woke up this morning not even wanting to get out of the bed. I did though very begrudgingly and took a ride to my favorite “home office,” Panera. I grabbed some breakfast, pulled out the laptop and got to work. Even though initially it was a bit of a mental struggle, once I got . . . → Read More: Can’t I Stay In Bed Instead?!

Friends In The Storm

With the recent sequence of events, I have been very sad and disappointed in my seemingly poor judgment of others. How could this seemingly well educated and knowledgeable person make such a bad decision with her time and her resources? It’s very easy to have a pity party and get on the woe is me . . . → Read More: Friends In The Storm

Yes I Was Burned, But I Call It A Lesson Learned

It’s funny I always seem to return to this blog in times of transition. Maybe if I stayed on the bandwagon, I would never fall off. Nonetheless, here we go again.


Well after another misadventure, I am stuck trying to figure out the direction of my life again. I could sit here and dwell . . . → Read More: Yes I Was Burned, But I Call It A Lesson Learned